Reboot

Reboot

I know I have been MIA for a very long time. These have not been easy times. Add to that my own personal existentialism and I needed to go dark for a bit. Things have started to turn around and I want to reconnect with each of you. I have come out from a few years of inner conflict with an even stronger desire to make a difference.

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One Way Street
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One Way Street

This July 4th has taken on additional significance for me for reasons beyond a glimmer of hope from the pandemic. I have recently learned that some of the people I most trusted have been the most destructive to me, and I have cut them out of my life (or at least I put them in a container on a shelf). I have always been good at validating others; now it’s time to validate myself.

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The Paleo Puzzle

The Paleo Puzzle

My diagnosis of Undifferentiated Connective Tissue Disease is about as meaningful as the term “unidentified flying object.” Nobody knows what it is or how to react. Recently, a couple of people asked if I had ever gone gluten free, or sugar free, or dairy free, or grain free. Wait… grain free?? OK, well that I haven’t done.

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Managing My Mystery Diagnosis

Managing My Mystery Diagnosis

The thing about having a mystery diagnosis is that there isn’t any text book I can refer people to. There’s no support group for people like me. As a result, it has been necessary for me to learn to be my own advocate, healthcare provider and number one supporter, all while also being the patient. It’s not something I would wish on anyone yet I also see the upside to these experiences.

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Fake It 'Til You Make It

Fake It 'Til You Make It

Some folks in my office building decided to bring a group of people together to watch Ted Talks, with the hope that some employees might be inspired to present our own homemade version of a Ted Talk. The Ted Talk we watched was one by Amy Cuddy, a social psychologist at Harvard. In the Ted Talk, Ms. Cuddy described how certain nonverbal postures can actually impact our physiology and chance of success.

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Later Seder

Later Seder

Passover has always been my favorite holiday. As a kid, I always looked forward to the annual Passover Seder. This year, it didn’t come at exactly a good time. So I had to miss the Seder this year. Until…I decided that maybe it wouldn’t be too late to host one of my own. I coined it, “The Later Seder,” and it will now be an annual event. Here's what we prepared and how, and how we went wrong in a few places.

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The Pollyanna Paradox

The Pollyanna Paradox

I once dated someone who observed that I’m drawn to depressing movies, TV shows and music. “Why?” he asked. “Because I feel that I can connect – that the writers and characters are expressing something I feel but cannot articulate,“ I said. He shrugged and said he didn’t get me. (I guess that’s why the relationship didn’t last long.)

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Me Retreat 2014

Me Retreat 2014

As I'm gearing up for my next annual "me retreat," I thought it might be nice to remind myself of how I felt the last time I went. Read on to learn more about what the spa experience is supposed to be about, and how I nearly ruined it for myself just over a year ago.

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Things Can Always Be Worse

Things Can Always Be Worse

I have been thinking about booking myself a trip to a spa. And then I thought back to less than a year ago, when I last visited The Lodge at Woodloch. (I used to visit there annually. If you’re looking for a laid back spa experience, where you can either delve in with the yogis or just go it your own way, there’s no better place than this.)

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Gluten Free Goods

Gluten Free Goods

If you're new to a gluten-free diet, you may not yet know which products are worth the spend. The best advice I have been given is just to avoid substitute foods entirely and try my best to live a grain-free lifestyle. But with my busy schedule that's easier said than done. If you're in the same boat as me and are striving to eat healthier but you still want some quick things you can grab for yourself or your family members, here are a few recommendations.

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Clean Your House Safely

Clean Your House Safely

As someone who has multiple chemical and fragrance sensitivities, but an equally potent allergy to dust, I often struggle to find cleaning projects that solve one problem without causing another. This article from Houzz offers great suggestions for those of us who like to keep a clean house without exposing ourselves to potentially harmful fumes often found in bleach and other typical household cleaners.

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